Seven Tips on How to Teach Kids About Money

Between shopping for presents and buying for parties, now is the time of year for spending money. It could also be the time to look at how your spending habits are affecting your children’s habits. Our financial guru, Julie Cole, has some tips on how to teach kids about spending and saving.

  1. Share information about the family finances. Your child doesn’t
    need to know your annual salary, the amount of the monthly
    mortgage payment or the amount in investments and savings, but
    they do need to know where the family stands financially. They need
    to know how money decisions are made and how parents save for the
    things they need and want. If money is tight, they need to know that
    there is no money for extras.
  2. One of the best tools parents have for teaching financial responsibility
    is an allowance. Allowance isn’t money a child earns for
    doing chores. Children should have age-appropriate chores that
    they do, without pay, simply because they are members of the family.
    The amount of the allowance should be age appropriate. Allowance
    money can be used for gifts for family members and friends and other
    needs. This is a good way to teach kids to give to charity, save for college,
    or other long-term goals.
    Allowances should be paid with small bills. If the monthly allowance
    is $10, they should receive ten $1 bills so that they can allocate
    appropriately to short-term and long-term goals.
  3. Show your children how to plan for purchases by always making
    a shopping list and purchasing only those things on the list. Use
    regular shopping trips as an opportunity to teach children about
    good shopping choices. It is estimated that impulse buying results in
    wasting 20% of our money. Your unplanned purchases will influence
    your child’s future spending habits.
  4. Teach kids about borrowing money when they are young. Let’s
    say your daughter wants to buy dad a Father’s day gift that costs
    $20, but she only has $15 saved. Advancing $5 from the next
    allowance may be a good idea if you make it clear that this will be a
    one-time event. If you advance money frequently, then they won’t learn
    about credit and budgeting.
  5. Take your child to a bank or credit union to open their own savings
    account. Beginning a regular savings habit early is one of
    the keys to financial success. Don’t refuse to let them withdraw
    when they want to make a purchase. This may discourage them from
    saving at all.
  6. Have your children set goals by making lists of needs and wants
    or necessities versus luxuries. Review the lists with them to help
    reassign items from necessity to luxury. Explain that no matter
    how important a video game is to them, it’s not a necessity, but may be
    a realistic goal that they can attain through saving.
  7. Allow your children to make spending decisions. Whether good
    or poor, they will learn from their spending choices. Encourage
    them to do research and open a discussion with them regarding
    the pros and cons of their spending choices.

Paying it Forward with Random Acts of Kindness

“Carry out a random act of kindness, with no expectation of reward, safe in the knowledge that one day someone might do the same for you.”– Princess Diana

To celebrate the spirit of giving this time of year, the blog committee decided to highlight a YELL! group event that took place early this fall. If you would like more information at starting a YELL! (Young Engaged Lodge Leaders!) group go to our youth page or email Kelsey at

In August, YELL! group 225 in Bannister, MI created a contest to encourage individuals to do Random Act of Kindness and “Pay It Forward”. What does it mean to pay it forward? Paying It Forward means to do an act of kindness with no strings attached. The point is to encourage others to do a random act as well.

The YELL! group wanted to do an activity that could be open to the public, while still connecting it to their core purpose of service. To expand the reach, the contest was held all online. The rules were simple: do five acts of “Paying It Forward,” then take a picture (for proof) and upload them to facebook. The only stipulations were that the participant must have five pictures and the pictures must be dated. To entice more people to give, the group decided to give a Kindle Fire to a randomly drawn contest participant.

Within six weeks, the contest yielded 60 acts of kindness that included bringing a pet to a nursing home, paying for a stranger’s parking meter, and buying flowers for a grandmother. The first year of this event was a success. The YELL! group hopes to be able to promote this wider next year. To learn more about YELL! group 225, visit their facebook page at

While the contest is over this year, it’s never too late to do random acts of kindness! Random Acts of Kindness is a website that gives all kinds of ideas you can do to spread cheer